HIT THE RIGHT TARGET WITH YOUR WEAPON!

 Hi guys!

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HIT THE RIGHT TARGET WITH YOUR WEAPON

Let me help spice up your day by dropping this here for you this evening 👇

Been thinking lately on some of the "many reasons" why relationships & marriages fail and am like: Lord, I know there is no perfect relationship or marriage anywhere but please, Lord, even when we're missing it, or making mistakes, quickly reorder our steps before it's too late. 

Firstly, 

You must understand that from the very first day you have both agreed on a relationship together or said yes as man & wife, you have entered into a battlefield and you must do all it takes to guard yourselves from the enemy and be victorious.

The enemy uses different strategies to set in & brings about confusion & hatred amongst both parties & they end up fighting eachother, leaving their priorities, goals, dreams, aims, plans e.t.c behind... 

It's a pity they lose target of the real enemy & start  using their weapons against each other.

If this is for you, let me charge you up by letting you know this: 👇

From today ma/sir: 👇

*Let what your mind tells you about your partner be  sieved...

*Let what you hear outside your home or circle be filtered...

*Be mindful of your actions & reactions towards eachother...

Secondly, 

Who are your advicers? Do you even talk to God about issues together? Remember, 1 shall chase a thousand & 2, ten thousand. (Deuteronomy 32:20)

When it starts to ring a bell in your head that he or she does not always call or text to check up on you, check well, the enemy is trying to make you find fault & lose focus.

Oh, she's just too slim for my liking, can't feel her well during sex or she's too fat, can't even take her out for dinner, like seriously? We're your eyes closed when you first met her? 

Oh, she's just dropped 2 & has blown up, now you complaining like it's her fault??? You the one who sure needs a rethink. 

He does not know how to speak well  in public, this man keeps  embarrassinge me, I just wish he was a literate. My dear, the enemy is at work and you are at the verge of losing your partner.  

Let me even break the news to you that we now live in that time & season where men are even scarce, I mean husband material...Lols dont worry, someone is out there waiting to grab him the moment you let go and you'll be surprised how he'll be tushed up later....🤣

She doesn't know how to cook, my friend, teach her!!! 

She/he snores a lot, work on it or get used to it!

He/she is too careless, work on yourselves! 

The more you keep finding fault, the more you keep breaking the edge for the sarpent to come in and bite! 

Lastly,

*Stop fighting yourselves instead of fighting the enemy.

*Stop listening to gossips about your spouse.

*Stop allowing your past life affect your present life...the fact that you failed before does not mean you'll fail again. It's just your mindset. Guard against it!

You are in a battlefield therefore, take your stand in the Lord like David and hit the right target. Don't let the devil decieve you any more.

Those weapons you are using against eachother should be for your enemies, don't let him come in at all....

Recieve more grace to overcome.

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